“Facebook has some decided benefits, but it can also, apparently, mess with our minds, drawing us into dependence and luring us to make unhealthy comparisons between ourselves and others” - Alice Walton, Forbes.com April 2012
Since the launch of Facebook in 2004, it has transformed from a college networking sight to a major part of everyday life. With user numbers in the two hundred million range and growing every day, Facebook has shown the world that it can be both harmful and harmless.
For those of you who aren’t familiar, Facebook is a social
networking site that launched in February of 2004. It was founded by college student Mark
Zuckerberg and fellow Harvard students.
The initial intentions were to make a site for only Harvard students with
the sole purpose of meeting other college students. As it became more and more popular, Facebook
was opened up to Ivy League schools, followed by any student that had a college
email that ended in .edu. By 2005, high school students were allowed to join,
and by 2006 anyone over the age of 13 could create an account.
I personally, have been an avid Facebook user since 2005 and
can fill you in on some key parts. The
first thing: It’s not official, until its Facebook official. Meaning that whether you are in a
relationship, engaged, married or divorced; it is not official until your
relationship status changes on your profile. The next important term to know is
“status.” The status is where most women
vent, and men talk about how epic their men’s night was. Some people rarely fill this out, and some
fill theirs out way too often. And the third
important term being the “like button.”
This is the button you push when you like someone’s photo, status, or
comment. Unfortunately, Facebook has not
invented a dislike button yet.
As you see Facebook is very simple, yet complicated. As it has become increasingly popular, it has
started to develop harmful effects. “Facebook
has some decided benefits, but it can also, apparently, mess with our minds,
drawing us into dependence and luring us to make unhealthy comparisons between ourselves
and others” says Alice Walton, Forbes.com April 2012. In the same article
Walton explains that women spend 30% more time on the web than men, and the
avid female users were more likely to be less happy and less content with their
lives than others. Danielle Pelkey, of North Jefferson News April 2012, explains that "people can take anything to the extreme and
make it a bad thing. The thought of
going a whole day without getting on their social network is almost paralyzing
to some.” I could continue to go on
about the side effects of Facebook, but they aren’t all bad.
Pelkey also states that “like
anything, when used wrongly, it can be dangerous and hurtful, but when used
correctly, it can be insightful and uplifting.”
I like to use Facebook as a networking site for my
business. I think of every one of my “friends”
as a potential sale or a prospect to refer a potential sale to me. I have
considered deleting my account on numerous occasions, and that is the one thing
that has always held me back. It is also nice to stay in touch with old friends
and family.
My 4 tips for Facebook users or potential Facebook users:
1. Don’t stay up all night “creeping” on other profiles.2. Don’t Facebook stalk your ex’s new lover.3. Don’t let yourself get distracted from what needs to be done.4. Restrict yourself from checking your phone or computer every 5 minutes to see if you have any “notifications.”
Happy Facebooking!
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